I suppose I could do the work you really do not want to do. Like it has been said, try a little harder to search.
http://www.inspirepilots.com/threads/anyone-used-dual-operator-mode.542/#post-6946
http://www.inspirepilots.com/threads/use-ipad-as-second-controller.492/
And retaliation? Jeez. I am sorry you feel you need that. I hope you can just fly safe and try to keep these boards a little cleaner. Stay healthy.