Once you cut the umbilical cord it will all be smiles and good memories...It's like having a pregnant wife and you've been told there are "issues" with the pregnancy....but we can't tell you EXACTLY what those issues are just yet. The baby SHOULD be arriving.....well, shortly, we think. Meanwhile your friends have had their babies arrive on time and healthy. Sadly, I'm not sure I still want a new baby anymore. I'm tired of all the up and down hurry up and wait.