So I finally got a response from the ticket i had open. But the response doesn't seen very helpful to me at all. And upon responding they closed the ticket as though it was all solved.
Here is the response I got:
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Thank you for contacting DJI North America.
I understand your frustration in this matter, I am happy to assist with any issue you may have.
The firm ware update can right now be updated through the app on certain devices such as: the "Phantom 3 Standard" and its remote, the transmitter/remote is for the "Inspire 1", However this depends on the model #. It starts with "GL###A or B" if it is B it will update through the app, if it is A the traditional way. The transmitter requires the firmware 1.3 only, The controller/transmitter may come unbound during the process please refer to the user manual on "binding the controller". The craft is the only thing right now that needs to be updated to 1.4 you do need to apply the other updates in sequence for this to work i.e if it is 1.2 then you upgrade 1.3 to 1.4, we do not recommend that you jump firmware upgrades. the controller needs to be off when updating the craft and the battery over 75%. Please refer to the user manual on our website under you crafts product tab under downloads link , and use it in conjunction with the videos on the website under the videos link. or use the DJI wiki page lots of useful information about your specific craft and flight modes and other features.
If you would like to try these steps provided and then if no success please reply to this email with your address and phone #, I will be happy to start to process this as a repair request.
Thank you for flying DJI
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A couple things.
1) I do have the version of controller that ends in B, so in theory I can update using the controller.
2) I have no idea how to use the controller and app to update the drone it self. I don't see that detailed in any of their documentation or videos.
Does anyone know where I can find information on this process? They specifically mention that the rc has to be off, but with it off I don't understand how to use the app to update the drone...
Anyway I replied to the email from them with my concerns and my contact info. I hope that it is read by a real person, this one feels like it's cut and paste by someone who barely read my ticket and just sent a form response to any firmware related tickets.